Remembering Tim & Hilary Blackham, and Gill Finlay
On our wedding day we hope to create new happy memories to help fill the space left by our loved ones who are no longer with us.
Clive's mum Gill passed away 1991.
Alice's dad Tim passed away in 2007, and her mum Hilary passed away in 2014.
Both Gill and Hilary were cared for at the end of their lives at the incredible Sue Ryder Hospice in Nettlebed. We have experienced first hand how difficult this time can be and we would like other people and their families to be able to benefit from the wonderful medical care and family support provided there.
Clive continues to support Sue Ryder through his charity fundraising efforts when taking part in sports events. Alice is now a regular volunteer at the hospice, working in the fundraising team in her spare time.
The hospice costs over £2M a year to run and the majority of funding comes from donations. We would be very grateful for any donations to Sue Ryder in lieu of a wedding gift.
Clive's mum Gill passed away 1991.
Alice's dad Tim passed away in 2007, and her mum Hilary passed away in 2014.
Both Gill and Hilary were cared for at the end of their lives at the incredible Sue Ryder Hospice in Nettlebed. We have experienced first hand how difficult this time can be and we would like other people and their families to be able to benefit from the wonderful medical care and family support provided there.
Clive continues to support Sue Ryder through his charity fundraising efforts when taking part in sports events. Alice is now a regular volunteer at the hospice, working in the fundraising team in her spare time.
The hospice costs over £2M a year to run and the majority of funding comes from donations. We would be very grateful for any donations to Sue Ryder in lieu of a wedding gift.
Recent Donations
7 years ago
Julia & Mark Bushby
Belated thanks for a wonderful day celebrating your wedding and all the very best for a long and happy future together xx
£30.00 (+ £7.50 Gift Aid)
7 years ago
J, C, M&M, P
Much love, what a fantastic day and congratulations again. xx
£25.00
7 years ago
Adam, Suzanne, Sofia & Leo
Many congratulations both!! We had a really lovely day xx
£100.00
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Thoughts
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We hope that you find it a positive experience developing the site and that it becomes a place of comfort and inspiration for you to visit whenever you want or need to.
Sent by Sue Ryder on 18/05/2016
I am I and you are you, whatever we were to each other that we still are.
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was.
Extract from a poem by Henry Scott Holland